Sex and Alcohol

Of 15 to 19 year olds who have had sex with someone they knew for less than one day, 61% of females and 48% of males gave drugs or alcohol as a reason.

(Getting hammered - young people and alcohol, 2009)

It is widely known that alcohol and other drugs can lower our inhibitions which means we’re much more likely to do something we wouldn’t normally do.  This means that much less likely to use condoms and contraception to prevent unplanned pregnancy and STI’s.

This also means that giving your consent to sex is difficult to do because you may not make the same decisions you would if you were sober. Drink and drugs might make you feel less nervous about sex – but then if you need these things to feel comfortable, you’re probably not with the right person, or you may not be ready to start having sex yet.

"My boyfriend wants me to do sex things with him but the only way I can manage is when I get drunk because otherwise I am too scared or embarrassed.” - 16 year-old girl

What’s more, sexual performance can actually diminish after a night out. Alcohol is an anaesthetic. It numbs the genitals' nerve cells, making it more difficult to reach orgasm. Alcohol can also make it harder for boys to achieve an erection.

Did you know it’s illegal to have sex with someone who is completely ‘out of it’ because of drinking alcohol, which means you could be charged with rape.

If you’re worried about your drinking you can speak to a worker at Checkpoint on 01803 200100.

Or to report an assault call the police on 08452 777444 or 999 in emergencies.